Friday, January 18, 2013

Hong Kong



Hong Kong – a city of banks, restaurants, designer stores, and an infinite number of high raise apartment buildings.  The public transportation is wonderfully efficient and with my prepaid Octopus card all I have to do is to tap my card to the reader on any form of transportation and the fee is automatically deducted, although since I’m an “elderly” the fee is very low – it’s even free to ride the Star ferry across the harbor, which everyone should do at least once in their life.  It’s still a thrilling ride, even if the harbor is much small than it was twenty years ago, and the boat traffic is much less.

Hong Kong is all about making money and spending money, and eating; eating everything and anything, as long as it is fresh.  For example, I ate goose intestines, duck tongues, and the fallopian tubes of a frog-like animal.  But more familiar types of food are even more delicious (to me); roast goose, barbecue pork, steamed whole fish, and of course we ate a lot of dim sum.  I love dim sum, not just the food itself but the ambiance – people sitting at tables with strangers reading their newspapers, drinking tea, passing time.  Of course the newer fancier restaurants lack this slow pace, but even at these places I don’t feel rushed.

The streets in some parts of town are lined with designer shops and outside these shops there are lines of people waiting to get in, mostly mainland Chinese with money to burn.  On the Star ferry I saw women with bags – lots of bags - from Chanel, Burberry, Prada, and numerous other high priced stores.    All that money is driving up the cost of real estate here, so that apartments rent for thousands of (US) dollars a month, and sell for millions.

Get on a ferry to an outlying island, or a bus to the peak, and in half an hour you are hiking in the country.  Our first day in Hong Kong the weather and visibility were great so we took a bus to the peak (the tram has become too popular with mainland tourists now), and hiked from Victoria Peak to the top of High West, another peak with a spectacular view and no buildings.  While we were climbing the hill that song from the old movie Love is a many splendored thing kept playing in my head: “once on a high and windy hill two lovers kissed…”   But Nonnie didn’t want to kiss in front of the other hikers.

Our trip was made much better by our friend Ed, with whom we roasted a pig in Gallup, and with whom we ate many great meals in Hong Kong, including a thirteen course wedding banquet at the marriage of Cheryl and Harold, Ed’s nephew.  That was a meal to remember!  Ed’s sister Amy had head surgery when we arrived, but was able to join us for dinner at the end of our visit.  We wish her well.

I will remember Hong Kong as a city of contrasts – huge apartment buildings and huge parks; rich people and poor people, cheap goods and expensive items – a place of endless energy, and sore legs.


Sunday, December 30, 2012

                  

                                Oran Finn Crook

The Holidays



Although I feared that this Christmas season might be too painful to be enjoyable, I managed to enjoy myself, to live with the pain and go forward with the holidays.

The Sunday evening before Christmas we went to an evening prayer service - vespers - at the local Orthodox church; an hour of candles, incense, and prayers sang by the choir, all very beautiful and spiritual. 

Monday morning December 24th Nonnie went to church while I went shopping and wrapped presents.  That evening, Christmas eve, we ate dinner at Season’s, a local restaurant.  The food was good, but the room was too ‘industrial’, not decorated enough.

On Christmas we spent the day with Colin, Sarah, Oran, and their big puppy Ono at their house.  We ate breakfast, opened presents, walked, slept, and ate dinner - herring salad, caviar, eggplant ikra, then duck with spaetzle, wild rice, lingonberries, red cabbage, spinach casserole, then a bush de noel with coffee.  All this washed down with two bottles of Pinot Noir from Oregon that we had saved for this occasion.

On Boxing Day we went back to Colin and Sarah’s house for left overs, and to encourage Oran to open more presents.  Since he is the only grandchild on both sides he got many gifts, but at twenty months he just doesn’t have the concept of presents, or of ownership, entitlement, or deferred gratification.  

It’s too bad that in the US Christmas ends at midnight on December 25th.  In Europe the 26th, Boxing Day, is also a holiday, and Christmas stretches out to the New Year.  I like observing the Russian Orthodox old calendar dates - Christmas on January 8th and New Years Day on January 15th.  It is so much more enjoyable, the slow progression of holidays, less intense, more enduring.

Now we are starting to think about our next trip, to Hong Kong for two weeks leaving tomorrow, December 31st.  Nonnie grew up there so for her it is a bit like going home -for me it remains very exotic.  I am flying on to Bangkok on January 14th but Nonnie will fly back to Albuquerque.  Colin has accepted a job in Seattle starting in February so Nonnie will help them with the move when they find a new home there - and with renting out their home here.  We will be moving too, probably, in May when our lease is up, to be near our only grandchild.

Friday, December 28, 2012

Saturday, November 17, 2012


      Priest Gulch Trail, Colorado

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Life Goes On

The hardest thing for me to accept at the graveside service marking forty days after Derek’s death was that until the end of all time this was the last service for Derek; no more eulogies, no more gathering of all his family and friends, no more condolences; now there will be only memories, pictures, conversations.  Everything that helped us to get through the dreadful days after Derek’s death is now over and complete; now we must try to get back to a normal life.

Nonnie has been cleaning out Derek’s apartment.  He didn’t have much really; clothes, books, a computer.  There were pots and pans, dishes, silverware, and some furniture - a couch, two chairs, a table.  He didn’t have a journal or a photo album, and we can’t open his computer without his password.  It was a strange experience, somehow the apartment, his things, seemed empty, cold, lifeless.

Now I am back at work at Shiprock, seeing patients, helping people.  Maybe now I see their grief a little more clearly, feel their pain a little more sharply.  Maybe I am a better doctor.  Maybe.  Last week I went to a TB-HIV meeting in Durango, and then to a meeting of the American College of Physicians in Albuquerque, where they gave me an award for community service.  I was honored, but too sad to be enthused. 

We took Derek’s couch and a new bunk bed to our cabin in Chama, which is now looking much better.  The solar panel provides enough power to light our lamps using low wattage bulbs, so now we can read at night.   The weather has been wonderful and driving from Chama to Shiprock I saw several magnificent looking male elk.  The week before I saw a porcupine and a black bear.  Sitting on the cabin porch in the early morning, drinking hot coffee, eating donuts - standing on the porch at night staring at the stars and the moon - these are a few of my favorite things. 


 Life goes on, and I must join in.




   



Friday, October 5, 2012

Derek Russell Crook



Born  22 August 1978
Died  21 August 2012